Tuesday 16 June 2015

BOOK RELEASE: Never Give Up 'How To Overcome Anything'

I am pleased to announce that the 2nd edition of Never Give Up 'How To Overcome Anything' is now available for immediate download.

Never Give Up, which was first released in January 2012, was a huge success for me, with Waterstones' reviewers giving it a commendable 26 out of 27 five ✭✭✭✭✭ ratings.

The new edition, which is only available as an eBook, is now available from Amazon and Smashwords (major eBook retailers to follow shortly).

Download your copy today for only £2.50 / $3.99

You can download your copy by clicking the links below.

SMASHWORDS
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AMAZON UK
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AMAZON US
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AMAZON CANADA
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AMAZON AUSTRALIA
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And ALL other Amazon websites!

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COVER REVEAL for my NEW quotes book

Coming soon...



We all love quotes, don't we? We all want to feel motivated and inspired?

Well, here is the ultimate quotes book. A book packed full of the most uplifting and inspiring quotes ever written. 400 quotations from some of the most influential people that have ever lived.

Read it. You'll LOVE it. It will make your day!

Monday 15 June 2015

RULE 5. Don't Play The Victim Card

Taken from my NEW book YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES...



5. DON’T PLAY THE VICTIM CARD

“Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one’s definition of yourself, but define yourself.” ~ Harvey S. Firestone

I wish to recall a conversation I had with an old friend several years ago. It was a particularly difficult period in my life. I was in a deep depression, struggling to cope with an impending bankruptcy, my divorce, and past issues I had failed to address, which were now having a very adverse effect on my well-being.

John, my friend, whom I had not seen for some time, asked me how life was treating me — it was a conversation which I will never forget. It went something like this…

John: “Hi, mate. Long time no see. How’s life treating you?”

Me: “Awful, to be honest, John. Life is crap. Everything is going wrong. I wish I had someone else’s life.”

John: “Swap you!”

Me: “Don’t be daft. You have a great life. You’re loaded — plenty of cash, great house, you’ve even got that villa in Florida. Why on earth would you want to swap me for all my problems?”

John: “I’ve got cancer, mate. I’ve been having treatment for ages.”

What could I say? I was speechless — I felt physically sick. I had made a total fool of myself, wallowed in self-pity, played the victim card.

I never saw my friend again, I can only hope that he made a full recovery, returned to his former glory. I remember the conversation though, as if it were only yesterday. It was a defining moment which helped change my perspective, helped me throw away my victim card. I faced my problems, my issues, and my illness — and beat them, eventually.

I made a full recovery because I refused to let my self-loathing destroy my life. I sought the help of my close friends, a good counsellor, and more importantly, my closest ally…ME!

“I had no shoes and complained, until I met a man with no feet.” ~ Indian Proverb

* Stop feeling sorry for yourself
* There is ALWAYS someone willing to swap
* Face your problems


ONLY $2.99 / £1.99 from ALL major eBook retailers


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YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES (The 66 Rules)

Hello and welcome to my blog.

Here are the 66 rules that my book YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES is based upon.

Of course, to get the full meaning behind each rule, you'll have to read the book!

1. Just Be Yourself
2. Live And Let Live
3. Accept Your Fate
4. Don’t Miss The Boat
5. Don’t Play The Victim Card
6. Have No Regrets
7. Free Yourself
8. Slay The Vampires, Ditch The Zombies
9. Detox Your Life
10. Dump The Television
11. Give Yourself A Happiness Score
12. Decide What You Want
13. Make A Plan
14. Score Lots Of Goals
15. Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone
16. Devise A Mission Statement
17. Create Worthy Values
18. Make Your Own Rules
19. Create Good Habits
20. Stand Tall
21. Look Good, Feel Good
22. Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff
23. Develop A Thirst For Knowledge
24. Think Positive & Keep Focused
25. Don’t Be A Hypocrite
26. Learn To Say No
27. Don’t Beat Yourself Up
28. Know When To Ask For Help
29. Take A Daily Dose Of Motivation
30. Manage Your Time Wisely
31. Complete The Big Tasks First
32. Take Time Out For You
33. Make Time For Those You Love
34. Do What You Love Doing
35. Have Fun — Life’s Too Short
36. Get Some Exercise
37. Eat The Right Stuff
38. Sleep Like A Baby
39. Get Out Of Bed
40. Count Your Blessings
41. Keep Your Cool
42. Think Before You Act
43. Share Your Troubles
44. Create A Mental Sanctuary
45. Talk To Yourself
46. Meditate — Or Take A Regular Catnap
47. Top-Up Your Confidence
48. You Will Never Please Everyone
49. Teach Your Children Well
50. Give Your Partner Space
51. Have A Back-Up Plan
52. Live Life On The Edge
53. Live Within Your Means
54. Save For A Rainy Day
55. Keep Learning, Keep Moving
56. Listen To The Voice Inside
57. Value Your Friends
58. Spread A Little Kindness
59. Look After Mother Earth
60. Leave A Legacy
61. Create A Bucket List
62. Keep Adjusting Your Sails
63. Write An Autobiography
64. Seize The Day
65. Get That Wanderlust Feeling
66. Never Give Up


YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES is available for immediate download
ONLY $2.99 / £1.99

Amazon USA Link
Amazon UK Link
Smashwords Link
Barnes & Noble Link
Kobo Link

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Sunday 14 June 2015

Retailer links for my book YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES

Hi everyone!

Here are the links to my new book YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES, which I released at the beginning of June...

Amazon USA Link
Amazon UK Link
Smashwords Link *
Barnes & Noble Link
Kobo Link

*A pdf version is available from Smashwords


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Thursday 11 June 2015

*** COVER REVEAL ***

NEVER GIVE UP (New Edition)

No one who reads this book can fail to be moved and motivated in equal measure. Written by a man who has experienced more than most and still come out smiling on the other side, Ivor Lloyd now wants the opportunity to help you.

His own account of the set-backs he has suffered in his life and the honesty with which he faces up to the ʻmistakesʼ he has made, are testament to his courage and ability to ʻNever Give Upʼ, even when the odds are stacked against him.

Ivorʼs inimitable, no-nonsense style of writing as he describes the emotional roller-coaster that his life has been, makes this book a real page-turner.

If you need some sound advice, a good dose of common sense and the answer to how to keep getting back up each time youʼre knocked down, then youʼve come to the right place!

COMING SOON!

Further details can be found on my website: http://ivorlloydcoach.wix.com/ivorlloyd


NEVER GIVE UP (The Blurb)

Here is the blurb to my book NEVER GIVE UP which is due for release later this month.


No one who reads this book can fail to be moved and motivated in equal measure. Written by a man who has experienced more than most and still come out smiling on the other side, Ivor Lloyd now wants the opportunity to help you.

His own account of the set-backs he has suffered in his life and the honesty with which he faces up to the ʻmistakesʼ he has made, are testament to his courage and ability to ʻNever Give Upʼ, even when the odds are stacked against him.

Ivorʼs inimitable, no-nonsense style of writing as he describes the emotional roller-coaster that his life has been, makes this book a real page-turner.

If you need some sound advice, a good dose of common sense and the answer to how to keep getting back up each time youʼre knocked down, then youʼve come to the right place!


Wednesday 10 June 2015

New eBook retailers now 'LIVE'

Hi guys!

I'm pleased to say that my new book YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES is now available for download from the following eBook retailers...

Amazon
Smashwords
Kobo
iBooks

I'm hoping the book will be live on Barnes & Noble within days.

Priced at ONLY $2.99 / £1.99.

Thank you for your support!

Best wishes,
Ivor Lloyd

* My new webite is now live http://ivorlloydcoach.wix.com

Sunday 7 June 2015

A short story from my forthcoming book NEVER GIVE UP

Here is a short story from the new edition of NEVER GIVE UP which is due June 2015.

I hope you like it...


The Buddha was teaching a group of people one day when he found himself on the receiving end of a fierce outburst of abuse from a bystander, who was for some reason very angry and frustrated.

The Buddha listened patiently while the stranger vented his rage before addressing his audience. “If someone offers a gift to another person, who then chooses to decline it, tell me, who would then own the gift? The person who offered the gift or the person who refused to accept the gift?”

“The giver,” said the group after a little thought. 

“Any fool can see that,” added the angry stranger.

“Then it follows, does it not?” said the Buddha. “Whenever a person tries to abuse us, or to unload their anger on us, we can each choose to decline or to accept the abuse; whether to make it ours or not. By our personal response to the abuse from another, we can choose who owns and keeps the bad feelings.”

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Thursday 4 June 2015

NEVER GIVE UP (book excerpt)

Here is an excerpt from my forthcoming book NEVER GIVE UP (Coming soon!)...


Believe In Yourself
“If my mind can conceive it, and my heart can believe it, I know I can achieve it.” ~ Jesse Jackson

As I mentioned previously, we are usually conditioned from an early age by those around us. These limiting and disempowering beliefs can often stay with us as we journey through life.

Flea trainers used to place the fleas in small jars and then put the lid on. The fleas continued to jump up and down continually hitting the lid on the jar. They do this many times, jumping and hitting the lid, jumping and hitting the lid. Eventually the fleas learn that they cannot escape, so they continue to jump, but they no longer hit the lid. Interestingly, when the lid is removed, the fleas do not jump out of the jar, they simply jump as high as they have been conditioned to do. They have been restricted in their beliefs, for they no longer believe they can jump high enough to escape.

Similarly, baby elephants are conditioned by their trainers by tying a large rope around the leg of the elephant and attaching the other end to a large stake which is driven deep into the ground. When the baby elephant pulls on the rope to try and escape, it quickly learns that it is not strong enough to break the rope, so it gives up trying. Once the elephant is fully grown, it doesn’t even try to pull the stake from the ground any more because it learned from an early age that it wasn’t strong enough to do so. Of course, the elephant could easily break the rope if it really tried to do so, but the conditioning it received as a young elephant has severely limited its potential.


Are you a flea or an elephant, unable to do the things you wish to do because of negative childhood programming? Are you living a life preordained by others?





My book YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES is now available from Amazon

Some of the Amazon reviews for YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES!

✭✭✭✭✭ Frankie W.

Insightful and written in his no nonsense fashion. You don't have to read this in any particular order because the table of comments has subjects listed. Start with what you need.


✭✭✭✭✭ J. Jacques

It certainly makes you see through the trees to the wood beneath. A lot of good advice. Action now required!


✭✭✭✭✭ Rachel Armstrong

This book is brilliant. It is information most of us know already but there is something about reading it all in one place that cements resolve, motivates for change and reminds you to refocus your life. It is all too easy to get caught in negative thought patterns and this book brings you round to a much more positive way of thinking. Writing goals focuses the mind, reminding yourself what is important in your life focuses you on getting back to appreciating these things but also it makes you decide just what is important to you. All ways round a great book to uplift, inspire, challenge and remind you what life is all about.


✭✭✭✭✭ Lorraine Anderson

Another great thought provoking book, great read!


✭✭✭✭✭ Soozy Booth

Your Life, Your Rules!
Simplistic! Realistic! Positive! Achievable! Inspiring!

'Your Life Your Rules' is not designed to give you definitive answers, nor is it a Bible - more a self help 'tool kit' to guide and advise, written honestly and taken from the authors own life experiences.
It is not written sequentially, it doesn't need to be! , Life and it's challenges do not come in some pre-determined order!
Start reading this book in the middle, the end or at the beginning. 'Your Life Your Rules' will be about you!
' Your Life Your Rules' is not a read once only book to be placed on your book shelf! It's a life long reference - a happy and positive life. Use it as needed.
The very fact you are reading this suggests that you may be in need of hope, inspiration and guidance - this book delivers on all 3 aspects and much much more!!
It's up to you how you use it!
But trust me ... You will succeed.... I did !!
Thank You Ivor.
Much love and God Bless You x


✭✭✭✭✭ Neil R.J. Friestad

Well, being honest, I've known Ivor sins we were both joiner apprentice's. And later in life I found out he was the owner of my local gym, called «Body and Soul» were I met up with old friends, not just to chew the fat, but to try and burn it off.
While I was a full paying member for the first year or so, my personal life whet down the toilet. I found a helping hand and good advice, from Ivor and his co/ workers at that time. Ivor even let me use the gym for free when I couldn't afford the membership. This guy really saved my life. I never stopped to consider that maybe my old fried had problems too??
I have read "Never give up", and now "Your life your rules" Never give up sits on my book shelf by the side of a book Ivor gave to me written by his holiness the Dalai Lama
"Awakening the mind, lightening the heart"
I read somewhere that when the student is ready the teacher will appear, Never really understood this till now.
If you are ready to change your life, and live by your rules, then you just found the teacher. Ivor isn't perfect or some rich guy selling you a dream, he is a flawed, Honest, hardworking ordinary person, that just might, change your life for the better. As for the books, they really are great but I was ready to listen. Are you?


YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES is now available from Amazon

Only $2.99 / £1.99

http://www.amazon.com/YOUR-LIFE-RULES-Ivor-Lloyd-ebook/dp/B00YQ5ZWJ4/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1433302652&sr=8-1&keywords=ivor+lloyd

Tuesday 2 June 2015

**Book Release** YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES

Are you living your life to its full potential?

Do you know how to make the instant changes necessary to create long-lasting success and happiness in all areas of your life?

If you don't, then you should read this book, because it has been written especially for you.

YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES is a personal code for living — a set of coaching principles that will help you live a happier, more fulfilling, more successful life — a no-nonsense guide that will help you create the new life you have always wanted.

Read it, absorb it. It will set you free!


YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES is now available from Amazon

Only $2.99 / £1.99

http://www.amazon.com/YOUR-LIFE-RULES-Ivor-Lloyd-ebook/dp/B00YQ5ZWJ4/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1433302652&sr=8-1&keywords=ivor+lloyd




Monday 1 June 2015

The Blurb to my NEW book YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES

Here is the blurb to my new book 'YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES' which is due for release in the the next few days... 


Are you living your life to its full potential?

Do you know how to make the instant changes necessary to create long-lasting success and happiness in all areas of your life?

If you don't, then you should read this book, because it has been written especially for you.

YOUR LIFE, YOUR RULES is a personal code for living — a set of coaching principles that will help you live a happier, more fulfilling, more successful life — a no-nonsense guide that will help you create the new life you have always wanted.

Read it, absorb it. It will set you free!